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Mastery Makes You More Interesting

From mastery to the most interesting man in the world. We took inspiration from the Olympic games to explore how mastery can be applied to everyday life. We discuss a framework for learning that makes us more valuable contributors and more interesting people, while preparing a meal worthy of applause. This is a dinner party you don't want to miss.    

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Feed Your Fire Podcast Episode Transcript:

Hello, and welcome to Feed Your Fire. I'm your host, Kim Baker. The Olympics haven't just gone viral for sports. Apparently, molten chocolate cake is having a comeback. For the last several weeks, you can see articles of people posting their epic fails and successes, with food being on the center stage of Olympic inspiration. And with the closing ceremony behind us, it's a moment to reflect on the idea of mastery.

As an homage to Cortina, Italy and the 12 US gold medals that broke our Winter Olympics record, we're going to prepare an Italian-American delight, Penne Allavodka, as we talk about what it means to go from good to great.

What is mastery? If you are watching the Olympics, you might think it's about a certain level of talent or skill or performance. But what makes these athletes masters is more than how they show up for the game.

We can often get lured into thinking that mastery is about reps or hours clocked, but those are really just the prerequisites. And ultimately, what I've learned mastery is, is taking knowledge or capability and turning it into something with a pulse. The knowledge or craft isn't just held, it's commanded. It becomes so internalized that it's owned. Becoming seamlessly integrated with your own unique point of view. If you're a figure skater, that could mean taking that technical skill and wrapping it with grace and style.

Think Alysa Liu transforming moves on the ice into something that feels like a song. And while that's a magnificent visual display of mastery, there's real practical value to it in our everyday lives.

As knowledge becomes cheaper and cheaper, commoditized in an AI-driven world, mastery and wisdom are what will command the greatest premium and value. That takes the importance of this conversation to a different level. Mastery isn't just for elite pursuit or for sport. It's now become essential.

How then can we develop mastery in our own life? There's a physicist, Richard Feynman. He won a Nobel Peace Prize and was known as the great explainer.

And this learning framework, the Feynman technique, is based upon his belief that if you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it. And that that is the true sign of mastery. And from an intellectual perspective, that seems pretty spot on.

But there's also a mental and an emotional component to mastery. A resilience, a discipline, a fire. Being able to come back from a setback is an essential part of mastery. It's something we can all relate to. What if every time we fumbled or failed at something, we thought of it as an important step towards mastery? Suddenly, that hiccup transforms to a much more noble pursuit.

One of the things that we learned in culinary school was not just about making recipes. A significant part of the curriculum was teaching us how to think in the kitchen. One of the instructors there would tell us that we were making decisions every time we approached the stove. Do you want the heat coming from the top or the bottom? Should it be direct or indirect? Should it be a dry cooking method or a moist one?

While I'm still a far cry from a master chef, I do understand cooking, and that makes me a master in the making. And so today we're going to blend those technical skills with the flair and passion of an Olympic athlete. Only today, our arena is the kitchen table, and our family and friends are the fans.

Today we're making a crowd pleaser, Penne ala vodka. It's been around since the 80s, much like that molten lava cake that became an Olympic sensation. We're going to start by making a simple sauce.

You can use a large saute pan or a saucepan. Turn the flame on medium heat, and when it's warm, add in about a quarter cup of pancetta. It typically comes in cubes. As it heats up, it'll render its fat, getting crispy as it cooks. Take your time with this process, giving the pancetta a chance to become golden brown. Once it's fully rendered, add about a tablespoon of chopped shallots and a minced clove of garlic. Let that cook up for about 30 seconds. Then take the pan off the heat and add about a quarter cup of vodka. I like to let that reduce down a bit. Then I add a large can of whole San Marzano tomatoes. Break up the tomatoes with the back of a wooden spoon, season it with salt and pepper. Let it cook for about 15 minutes. You might need to add a splash of water to thin it out.

And then while that's cooking, I get a large pot of pasta water boiling. The water should be seasoned very generously with salt. Depending on the pasta you're using, it might cook for 8 to 10 minutes, and you'll want it to be just al dente.

While that's cooking, we're going to add about 2 thirds a cup of cream to our sauce, along with a few tablespoons of Parmesan cheese. Let that simmer really slowly and gently. And when the pasta's just cooked through, but still has a little bit of bite to it, you're going to add the pasta to that vodka sauce, along with about a quarter cup of the pasta water.

Let that all cook together for a few minutes until it's all incorporated. I like to add in a pat of butter and some chopped parsley, maybe a pinch more of salt and pepper. And that, my friends, is all it takes to have a meal worthy of applause.

When I was a teenager, I visited Cortina, where the Olympic Games were held this year. It's such an incredibly charming city, and I have these memories of going into this little market and getting cheese and crackers and having these snack happy hours with my boyfriend and his parents. Little did I know that that trip would give me the backdrop for today's episode, a piece of knowledge that then I could apply in this setting.

And most of our experiences are mastery in the making. If we take them in as more than just moments or happenings, and instead, look at them as ingredients. About a week ago, I hosted a dinner with my son and his girlfriend and some friends.

My boyfriend was there, his daughter. I made this penne ala vodka, and it was a huge hit. But for me, the mastery wasn't just in the meal.

It's a deeper understanding of food as a connector, as a memory maker. And that each meal we share with people that we love and care about isn't an outcome. It's simply a part of the process. And because mastery is based on a mindset, diligently pursuing a craft or becoming a subject matter expert in one area provides a framework to other disciplines. Learning how to master something becomes a skill in and of itself. And there's a real calculus to it. If you dust off the cobwebs and go back to high school math class, there was a limit equation, an endpoint that was infinite and you could never quite reach. Mastery is a bit like that in real life, a continuous process of learning and bettering that can go on in perpetuity, embracing a process of lifelong learning.

As I was learning about Richard Feynman, I was struck by what an interesting man he was. And I realized that mastery can make you an Olympic sensation; it can make you a valuable source of authority in your professional field or as a hobbyist. But frankly, it also just makes us more interesting. A modern day Dos Equis man, alive and in the flesh.

If that inspires you to stay thirsty, we'll bring the food. As far as we're concerned, the coming together of mastery is a dinner party you don't want to miss.

Until our next episode, I say so long. Feed your fire, where food nourishes growth.